God Bless You My Brother In Christ Jesus,
Let me get right to the point. My concern here is that you have posted an "ongoing prayer" for God to bless you with a "girl friend/soul mate." At the age of 41, I encourage you to redirect your desires not for a "girl friend" but for the Lord to bless you with a "wife." "Girl Friends" are not always "Soul Mates" but The Word of God encourages us that "He That Findeth A Wife, Findeth A Good Thing."
Learn self control by learning how to bring the "flesh" under the subjection of the "Spirit." By doing this, it will help you to see clearer just who God is directing you to in your life.